A third gender?

When we talked about people that considered themselves to be gay and actually had more evidence I was quite taken back. I'm sure most if not all of us either have friends or family members that struggle with this particular situation. In some cases, someone listening and showing them that they are valued and loved can make all the difference in the world. It was also nice for me to learn that isn't even about sex, but rather feeling intimacy (and that's on all levels and aspects of a person's life). It is so important to not experiment and to stop the behavior and help them to "see" physically and spiritually that what they think leads to what they feel. And above all  and most importantly to keep in mind who God sees you as.